Why Cars Don’t Matter to Me

Several years ago I was walking my buddy, Tim, out of my house to his car. He told me he had parked it right at my front door. I opened the front door, and there it was. I think I was drooling from the first look.

“That has got to be one of the most beautiful cars I have ever seen!” I exclaimed.

It was a Mercedes 600 SL convertible with the AMG performance package. It was silver with black leather interior. It was so pretty. With its top down, it seemed to glisten in the sun on that warm spring day.

Every detail of the car was perfect. The craftsmanship was impeccable, and it had over 500 hp to get wherever you were going, fast.

Feeling Embarrassed

He said, “I love this car. It is so much fun. Why don’t you get one?”

“I would love to have one, but I just can’t,” I said.

“Why not? I would think you have the money to buy it,” he said.

“I could never feel comfortable in a car like this. I once had a Porsche convertible, and whenever I drove anywhere, people would stare and comment, ‘Nice car!’ Then I would feel embarrassed.”

“Why is that?” he asked.

“Maybe I don’t believe I deserve it. Maybe it is counter to my values. Maybe I like being understated. The truth is, I’m just not comfortable owning something like this,” I said.

As I was answering his question, I could see his face changing from interest to confusion. He then got right up in my face and said, “I have none of that.”

Adamantly he continued, “I believe God gave me the unique ability to make a lot of money. At the same time, God gave some engineer in Germany the unique gift of designing works of art just like this one. When I buy his car, I am honoring him for his gift with my gift. Simple as that. I have none of whatever you have.”

Getting the “Wannas”

This happened over fifteen years ago, and I found myself telling the story just this weekend to Bob, another very close friend of mine. We were talking about cars. Bob needs to buy a car but doesn’t care enough about them to go through the hassle. But I remember when Bob used to think about cars.

We had lunch one summer day with our wives. It was one of those Italian restaurants on Peachtree Street with a great patio. Every time a Ford Thunderbird passed by, he would stop the conversation, point, and say, “There’s a black one,” or, “Look at that red one with the top down. Isn’t it gorgeous?”

Bob told us that day he had the “wannas.” He put in his order for one and waited in line just like everyone else. Eventually his number was called, and he got his black on black T-Bird and loved it. He drove it everywhere and was so proud. After over 100k miles he sold it. He never cared about another car again.

Chrome, Lights, and Rumble

So I asked Bob, “Why do you think I am that way about cars? Is it because I don’t believe I deserve it?”

“I don’t know. Maybe it is because you never wanted a particular car as a goal. When I work for something, I really want it, and I am proud when I get it. I am not embarrassed because it is the result of something I worked for,” he said.

Like usual, this was a good insight from Bob. I bought cars mostly as an impulse buy. I was told by others what I should buy but didn’t care. I certainly didn’t care enough to have a car purchase be a goal I worked toward.

So if a car is not a goal for me, then it is a status symbol. That’s when I get uncomfortable.

Funny how I never have this issue with motorcycles. I love the chrome, lights, and rumble.

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4 thoughts on “Why Cars Don’t Matter to Me

  1. Says the guy who always makes fun of my Civic and can’t understand why I haven’t bought a new car yet 🙂

    Why cars might not matter much to you, they really don’t matter to me.

    Maybe I don’t believe I deserve it. Maybe it is counter to my values. Maybe I like being understated. The truth is, I’m just not comfortable owning something like this

    I think the biggest one for you is it is counter to your values. You know that money can be used to either a.) give or b.) invest. Why waste too much money on a depreciating asset when those other two values of yours are clearly more important.

    But we all have that hobby/fascination/interest that defies this rule. That thing that makes no financial sense, but we love it anyways. For you, it is motorcycles. For me, it is aviation. I think we are all allowed one {wink}

  2. I’ve been contemplating this post since the time you published it. “I have none of whatever you have.” Therein lies the fundamental attitude related to the choice we have regarding alignment with God’s will and how our actions have cascading impact. I reference Matthew 19:21 as a guiding light. It is important for me that I express my own personal failures in this area. Thus, I am not taking a position of ‘do as I have done.’ My lack of personal perfection in this realm is not the point and it doesn’t mean I cannot provide insight into a better way. Purchasing a $130k+ automobile is selfish. Plain and simple. It’s no different than me purchasing a $3.70 chai latte from Starbucks. Selfish. To use the logic ‘I help fund the artistry and skill of the craftsman that made it’ is shortsighted. Does the same logic apply to the physicists and scientists that create nuclear weapons? No? Why? Simply because those products are weapons and a car is not? OK, then what about high/empty calorie beverages or 813 calorie cinnamon rolls (The CDC says the #1 threat to humans is obesity)? It’s a continuum of gray area where we, individually, choose to draw the line. Jesus, not surprisingly, draws the line at the extreme end of selflessness. Shouldn’t that be our goal? Granted, we fail and we are not perfect. But, it doesn’t mean we shouldn’t strive toward that goal. Whether it’s an unnecessary chai latte or a Mercedes SL600 AMG, our decision to make the purchase supports the future of the product. And, the future of the people behind the product. What would happen if we stopped making these purchases or striving to be the CMO of a firm selling these items? I believe humans are resilient and God’s will is perfect. Thus, these workers/artisans would be required to build something else that was in demand. Hopefully, something better aligned with selflessness.

    • Michael: Thanks for your comments on the blog post. Sounds like it hit a nerve. Sometimes we need to wrestle with God and see what He tells us about an issue that is really bothering us. Whenever I come to a hard conclusion, I am at first settled, but then begin to hold it loosely to give the Lord some room to speak to me about it.

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